About

I desire to use my experience and understanding (as well as mistakes) to build resources and community that works through the paralysis of overthinking in order to reach the practical goals a successful honoring spousal relationship, faithful means of income to provide for a life that is honoring to God. Basically the idea is that God created us and everything and He should know how to navigate any and all scenarios.

My goal is that instead of finding one-step solutions each person reading this will begin a life lived of experience rather than a mental conception along with community that celebrates in the small steps that move them closer to being free.

I myself am an over thinker constantly analyzing the world around me in an attempt to predict what will happen next.   What this means is I focus on processing relationships and life circumstances to a degree that pushes interactions with reality away.  I will literally think myself into a world completely made up.

Because of this disconnect I found that I become like a paralytic in a cage fight, about as useful as a whoopee cushion and just as deflated.  

Over complication of interpretations, over analyzation of motivations, and assumed intentions are only 3 of the key characteristics of this life.  Practically this results in missed experiences, frustrated relationships, unmet goals, forgotten conversations, and car keys left in the fridge. 

What I created my business for is to share my experience and understanding in helping anyone who finds themselves relating to this experience and to overcome this repeated process that creates so much stress, anxiety, and depression.  I whole heartedly believe this is possible and desirable by God and that there is a pattern designed that is tailor fit to each individual person. 

~Nicholas Fidencio